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I fired my client

June 23, 20252 min read


For a long time, I thought helping people meant saying yes to everyone.

If someone needed healing…
If they were in pain…
If they were lost…

I believed it was my job to show up. No matter what.

But I’ve learned something important over the years:
Healing can’t be forced.

And now?
I only work with aligned clients.

Let me tell you why.


A Story That Changed Everything

One of my clients had survived cancer.
She came to me not because she was desperate...
But because she was ready.

She wasn’t looking for a quick fix.
She didn’t expect me to “fix” her.
She showed up fully — mind, body, and soul.

She was ready to face the deeper things:
The stuck emotions.
The old beliefs.
The fear that still lingered.

And because she was open and willing...
The work worked.

Her body relaxed.
Her energy shifted.
Her spirit came alive.

That’s what alignment looks like.
And that’s when healing becomes real.


Why I Don’t Say Yes to Everyone

In the past, I said yes when I knew I shouldn’t.
I took on clients who wanted someone else to do the work.
They weren’t ready to face their patterns or their pain.

It felt heavy.
Like pushing a boulder uphill.

No one left feeling truly better.
Not them.
Not me.

So I stopped working from obligation.
And started working from alignment.


What Aligned Healing Feels Like

Aligned healing doesn’t mean it’s always easy.
But it feels like teamwork.
It feels like flow.
It feels like something bigger is guiding the way.

That’s the kind of work I want to do.
Real.
Lasting.
Soul-deep.


How to Know If You’re Aligned

You don’t need to be fearless.
You don’t need to have it all figured out.

You just need to be willing.

Willing to:
✔ Show up honestly
✔ Be open to growth
✔ Stop blaming others
✔ Start trusting yourself

It’s okay to be scared.
It’s okay to be in the middle of the mess.

What matters most is that your soul says,
“I’m ready.”


Final Truth

I only work with aligned clients now.
Because when someone isn’t ready, healing won’t stick.

But when your heart, mind, and soul are all saying yes...
That’s when the real transformation happens.

The body remembers.
The spirit rises.
And everything begins to change.

So if you feel that spark —
That quiet voice saying “it’s time”

I’d love to walk with you.

When you're ready, I’ll be here.

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